40 by 40
A friend of mine recently posted about her list of 40 things to do before the age of 40. At first I thought, "Hey, that's a great idea!" and then I thought, "I have seven hours." Oh well. Instead, I thought I'd make a list of things I'm glad I did before the age of 40. Maybe things I'm glad I've learned. I'm not sure. Suddenly 40 seems like a lot and until I actually make this list I'm not sure what it will contain. So here goes: 40 Things I'm Glad I've Done/Learned: 1. I've followed God 2. Learned that God loves me. A lot. 3. Married a great man 4. Became a mom 5. Learned that you can’t be a perfect mom, but you can be a great one with God’s help. 6. Lived in other countries 7. Learned that God is bigger and stronger and wiser and basically more of everything than we believe He is. And the more you trust that, the better off you are 8. Climbed the Great Wall (and therefore am now a true Han Chinese) 9. Wrote a book (wait, what? Yes, but it's for a limited audience) 10. Ran two half-marathons 11. Learned that when taking up running you should have good shoes and take extra iron or you will hurt your feet and get anemic 12. Preached in a church in Trinidad ("preach it sista!") 13. Learned another language 14. Used my degree – take that all you humanities haters. 15. Learned how to take good photos 16. Homeschooled my kids 17. Rode a unicycle 18. Played several musical instruments with varying degrees of competency 19. Learned that as much as I don't like trials, I need them to be who God wants me to be (and who I want to be) 20. Had cheap massages on the beach in Thailand, which is the best way to get a massage in the world 21. Stayed healthy 22. Learned that being healthy is as much about giving yourself grace as it is about eating well and exercising 23. Had hard conversations where I had to be vulnerable and saw how it deepened my relationships 24. Wrote a blog 25. Consistently sought opportunities to share with others what God is doing in my life (i.e. through this blog) 26. Tried to be as generous as possible with my resources 27. Read extensively 28. Made friendships a priority 29. Learned to apologize often 30. Went to LEAF (leadership development time) and purposed to apply what I learned there 31. Became a LEAF coach 32. Prayed. A lot. 33. Learned that my value comes solely from my position as a child of God 34. Kept my sense of humor 35. Made keeping tabs on my own heart a value 36. Learned that to keep an open, soft heart requires a willingness to bear pain 37. Learned that my depravity is deeper than I could have imagined, but His redemption is far deeper 38. Learned that our parents are a lot smarter than we give them credit for (and so are kids) 39. Made mistakes 40. Learned that I still have a lot more to learn